A few posts ago, I wrote Living with Yourself, a post about the importance of having solitary times just to yourself. This post about the importance of having relationships with people, then, is a compliment to Living with Yourself. My Art History instructor last summer at Fullerton College, although talked to much and was kind of annoying, had this great phrase- “what is your story?” This idea being a true interest in what makes the person you’re conversing with unique. What’s their views on things, what makes them excited and why, etc. You look across a crowd, you see a sea of people- hard to identify the individualities. Yet everyone is an individual and have very unique views of the world. Read the rest of this entry »

These rules are quick and dirty simple checks one can make when you’re kinky, drunk, or both and not quite sure if you want to hit it: Loser-sign rule, make-up danger, true beauty, cute or hot?, Stone’s advice, and age image. Read the rest of this entry »